In aconflict, being willing to change allows you to move from a point of view toa viewing point a higher, moreexpansive place, from which you can see both sides.

When the defects of others are percieved with so much clarity, it is because one possesses with oneself.

The exercise of power is determined by thousands ofinteractions between the world of the powerful and that of the powerless, allthe more so because these worlds are never divided by a sharp line: everyonehas a small part of himself in both.

Sometimesone pays most for the things one gets for nothing.

Freedom is not caprice, but room to enlarge

They know enough who know how to learn.

Power will intoxicate the best hearts, as wine thestrongest heads. No man is wise enough, nor good enough to be trusted withunlimited power.

The difficultpart in an argument is not to defend one's opinion, but rather to know it.

Assumptionof cooperative goals leads to viewing the conflict as a common problem to besolved for mutual benefit.

Thedirect use of force is such a poor solution to any problem,it is generally employed only by small children and large nations.

We have no more right to consume happiness without producing it than to consume wealth without producing it

Thetrouble with talking too fast is you may say something you haven't thought ofyet.