If you are standing upright, don't worry if your shadow is crooked.

The hand of liberality is stronger than the arm of power.

Astupid act entails doing the work twice over.

Cooperativeconflict builds people up, strengthens their relationships, and gets thingsdone.

The numberone goal in resolving a conflict is to make sure both sides maintain theirself-esteem.

A bad workman never gets a good tool.

Ifyou are leaning over to starboard to balance the boat against the other guy'spropensity to lean too far to port, both of you are about to get wet.

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

We ownalmost all our knowledge not to those who have agreed but to those who havediffered.

Within-groupconflict is always personal and emotional even if it begins with impersonalissues.

Suffering is one very long moment. We cannot divide it by seasons. WE can only record its moods and chronicle their return.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony