People whoare too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successful andfeel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation, or between extrinsicand intrinsic motivation...

You can't change people, but you can channel them your way.

Science has promised us truth. It has never promised us either peace or happiness.

If necessityis the mother of invention, conflict is its father.

A merefriend will agree with you, but a real friend will argue.

A cup is useful only when it is empty; and a mind that is filled with beliefs, with dogmas, with assertions, with quotations, is really an uncreative mind.

COURAGE IS THE FLEEING FORWARD.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony

The most important things are the hardest to say, because words diminish them.

A matter that becomes clear ceases to concern us.

The sun, though it passes through dirty places, yet remains as pure as before.

Theharder the conflict, the more glorious the triumph.