Chances happens to all, but to turn chance to reality is the gift of the few.

They know enough who know how to learn.

Conflictinvolves incompatible behaviors rather thancompetitive goals.

He who gainsa victory over other men is strong; but he who gains a victory over himselfis all powerful.

Theability to speak eloquently is not to be confused with having something tosay.

Love arrives on tiptoe and bangs the door when it leaves.

Neverforget the power of silence, that massively disconcerting pause which goes onand on and may at last induce an opponent to babble and backtrack nervously.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony

It isthe acid test of nonviolence that in a nonviolent conflict there is no rancorleft behind, and in the end the enemies are converted into friends.

It's notthe size of the dog in the fight, it's the size of the fight in the dog.

He that is unkind to his own will not be kind to others.

You grow up the day you have first real laugh - at yourself