Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony

The singlemost powerful tool for winning a negotiation is the ability to get up andwalk away from the table without a deal.

Power is a little like alcohol: the faster it is consumed, the more quickly it affects the brain.

Peacecan not be kept by force. It can only be won, through understanding. Ourlonging for understandingis Eternal.

The most exquisite paradox… as soon as you give itall up, you can have it all. As long as you want power, you can't have it.The minute you don't want power, you'll have more than you ever dreamedpossible.

If wemanage conflict constructively, we harness its energy for creativity and development.

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A wise man will make more opportunities than he finds.

Power will intoxicate the best hearts, as wine thestrongest heads. No man is wise enough, nor good enough to be trusted withunlimited power.

Words are like spears: Once they leave your lips they can never come back.

It is not the whip that makes man, but the lure of things that are worthy to be loved.

Sacrificers are not the ones to pity. The ones to pity are those they sacrifice.