Difficultiesare meant to rouse, not discourage. The human spirit is to grow strong byconflict.

The aimof argument, or of discussion, should not be victory, but progress.

Thegalleries are full of critics. They play no ball, they fight no fights. Theymake no mistakes because they attempt nothing. Down in the arena are thedoers. They make mistakes because they try many things. The man who makes nomistakes lacks boldness and

By despising all that has preceded us, we teach others to despise ourselves.

The numberone goal in resolving a conflict is to make sure both sides maintain theirself-esteem.

You'vegot to know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em know, when to walk away, know when to run.

There ward for always listening when you'd rather be talking is wisdom.

No onecan persuade another to change. Each of us guards a gate of change that canonly be opened from the inside. We cannot open the gate of another, either byargument or emotional appeal.

To know the pains of power, we must go to those who have it;to know its pleasures, we must go to those who are seeking it.

When you choose the lesses of two evils always remember there is still an evil.

Thedeeper the waters are, the more still they run.

Symanpathy is a supporting atmosphere, and in it we unfold easily and well