Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you willlive in torment if you don't trust enough.

You can not help men permanantly by doing for them what they could do for themselves

Astupid act entails doing the work twice over.

Conflictlies at the core of innovation.

We cannot always control our thoughts, but we can control our words, and repetitionimpresses the subconscious, and we are then master of the situation.

Drowning problems in an ocean of information is not the same as solving them.

As longas you keep a person down, some part of you has to be down there to hold himdown, so it means you cannot soar as you otherwise might.

Slander cannot destroy an honest man: when the flood recedes the rock is there.

Far better to think historically, to remember the lessonsof the past. Thus, far better to conceive of power as consisting in part ofthe knowledge of when not to use all the power you have. Far better to be onewho knows that if you reserve the power not to

Youcan't turn back the clock. But you can wind it up again.

Embracingconflict can become a joy when we know that irritation and frustration canlead to growth and fascination.