Thewise man, even when he holds his tongue, says more than the fool when hespeaks.

All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

Undernormal conditions, most people tend to see what they want to see, hear what theywant to hear, and do what they want to do; in conflicts, their positionsbecome even more rigid and fixed.

When you choose the lesses of two evils always remember there is still an evil.

The first duty of love is to listen.

Wheneveryou're in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make thedifference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factoris attitude.

Reasonand emotion are not antagonists. What seems like a struggle between twoopposing ideas or values, one of which, automatic and unconscious, manifestsitself in the form of a feeling.

Trust is difficult to define, but we know when it's presentand when it's not.

The greatest humiliation in life is to work hard on something from which you expect great appreciation, and then fail to get.

A hero is no braver than anyone else; he is only brave minutes longer

All creeds and opinions are nothing but the result of chance and temperament.

They know enough who know how to learn.