People whoare too

People whoare too
People whoare too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successful andfeel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation, or between extrinsicand intrinsic motivation...
  

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Whoeverhas the mind to fight has broken his connection with the universe. If you tryto dominate people you are already defeated. We study how to resolveconflict, not how to start it.
Embracingconflict can become a joy when we know that irritation and frustration canlead to growth and fascination.
The work of an unknown good man is like a vein of water flow hidden underground, secretly making the ground greener.
Thesearch for someone to blame is always successful.
Remember when feminisit movements were something men gathered on street corners to admire as the girls strolled by
The remedy for weakness is not brooding over weakness, but thinking of strength.
To do what others cannot do is talent. To do what talent cannot do is genius.
I have never been able to conceive how any rational beingcould propose happiness to himself from the exercise of power over others.
I hold it to be a proof of great prudence for men toabstain from threats and insulting words toward an enemy, for neither ...diminishes the strength of the enemy; but the one makes him more cautious,and the other increases his hatred of you and makes him
Only put off until tomorrow what you are willing to die having left undone.
It is easier to discover deficiencies in indivuduals, states and providence than to see their real import and value.
The soul would have no rainbow, if the eyes had no tears.