Dealwith the faults of others as gently as with your own.

Beon a horse when you go in search of a better one.

Peoplewho are too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successfuland feel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation,or between extrinsic and intrinsic motivation…

The singlemost powerful tool for winning a negotiation is the ability to get up andwalk away from the table without a deal.

Necessitynever made a good bargain.

Only put off until tomorrow what you are willing to die having left undone.

Voilence is a Just when kindness is vain

Two man looks out through the same bars: the one sees the mud, the one the stars.

A shipin harbor is safe, but that is not what ships arebuilt for.

Conflictcan be seen as a gift of energy, in which neither sideloses and a new dance is created.

Thepast is malleable and flexible, changing as our recollection interprets andre-explains what has happened.

Don't wrestlea pig in a mud hole. You both get all dirty, and the pig enjoys it.