Dealwith the faults of others as gently as with your own.

Whenyou plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don't blame the lettuce. Youlook for reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water,or less sun. You never blame the lettuce. Yet if we have problems with ourfriends or our family,

Do not judge, and you will never be mistaken

It isdifficult to negotiate where neither will trust.

The possession of power over others in inherently destructiveboth to the possessor of the power and to those over whom it is exercised.

Thesearch for someone to blame is always successful.

I liketo listen. I have learned a great deal from listening carefully. Most peoplenever listen.

Lookingfor fish? Don't climb a tree.

Resolvingconflict is rarely about who is right. It is about acknowledgment andappreciation of differences.

Every kind of peaceful cooperation among men is primarilybased on mutual trust and only secondarily on institutions such as courts ofjustice and police.

A man without a smiling face must not open a shop.

Without trust, words become the hollow sound of a woodengong. With trust, words become life itself.