Within-groupconflict is always personal and emotional even if it begins with impersonalissues.

Happinessis the only sanction of life; where happiness fails, existence remains a madand lamentable experiment.

Never[enter] into dispute or argument with another. I never yet saw an instance ofone of two disputants convincing the other by argument. I have seen many ontheir getting warm, becoming rude and shooting one another.

Ifthere is any great secret of success in life, it lies in the ability to putyourself in the other person’s place and to see things from his point of view as well as your own.

Whenyou plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don't blame the lettuce. Youlook for reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water,or less sun. You never blame the lettuce. Yet if we have problems with ourfriends or our family,

There is no passion in life as intense as the desire to change someone else's draft.

Takeyour life into your own hands, and what happens? A terrible thing, no one toblame.

Effectivecommunication is 20 percent what you know and 80 percent how you feel aboutwhat you know.

Conflictis inevitable, but combat is optional.

Kind wordscan be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.

Even to observe neutrality you must have a strong government

Don'thate, it's too big a burden to bear.