Have adialogue between the two opposing parts and you will find that they alwaysstart out fighting each other until we come to an appreciation of difference... a oneness and integration of the two opposingforces. Then the civil war is finished, and your e

Whenevertwo good people argue over principles, they are both right.

If twopeople on the same job agree all the time, then one is useless. If theydisagree all the time, then both are useless.

Drown not thyself to save a drowning man

Listeningwell is as powerful a means of communication and influence as to talk well.

The greatest trust between man and man is the trust ofgiving counsel.

Trust is difficult to define, but we know when it's presentand when it's not.

Usesoft words and hard arguments.

Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

Myinterest is in the future because I'm going to be spending the rest of mylife there.

By being pleasant always and smiling, it takes you nearer to God; Nearer than any prayer.

Theharder the conflict, the more glorious the triumph.