Far better to think historically, to remember the lessonsof the past. Thus, far better to conceive of power as consisting in part ofthe knowledge of when not to use all the power you have. Far better to be onewho knows that if you reserve the power not to

It ishard to change our point of view in a conflict. Most often, it is because weare not nearly as interested in resolving the conflict and possibly creatinga new ‘pearl’ as we are in being right.

Grantgraciously what you cannot refuse safely and conciliate those you cannotconquer.

He that is unkind to his own will not be kind to others.

Love arrives on tiptoe and bangs the door when it leaves.

Embracingconflict can become a joy when we know that irritation and frustration canlead to growth and fascination.

Difficultiesare meant to rouse, not discourage. The human spirit is to grow strong byconflict.

Everyoneis wise until he speaks.

Our power is in our ability to decide.

The problem with communication is the illusion that is has occurred.

Treat peopleas if they were what they ought to be and you help them to become what theyare capable of being.

Humoris the affectionate communication of insight.