Everything comes gradually and at its appointed hour.

Buying ischeaper than asking.

Gossip is that which no one claims to like-but everybody enjoys.

You're ina much better position to talk with people when they approach you than whenyou approach them.

Beautifullight is born of darkness, so the faith that springs from conflict is oftenthe strongest and the best.

Aquarrel is like buttermilk: once it's out of the churn, the more you shakeit, the more sour it grows.

He whoangers you, conquers you.

Thedifficult part in an argument is not to defend one's opinion, but rather toknow it.

Silenceis as full of potential wisdom and wit as the unshown marble of greatsculpture. The silent bear no witness against themselves.

Treatpeople as if they were, what they ought to be andyou help them become what they are capable of being.

He understands badly who listens badly.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony