People whoare too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successful andfeel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation, or between extrinsicand intrinsic motivation...

Be slow of tounge and quick of eye.

The aim of education is not the specialist but the man of vision who can humanise our life by integrating emotional demands with our new knowledge

Ultimately, the only power to which man should aspire isthat which he exercises over himself.

Tell meand I'll forget. Show me, and I may not remember. Involve me, and I'llunderstand.

The planers do not make or mar our destiny. we are the makers of our destiny.

Conflictleads to less-than-adequate performance, resentments, and lack of motivation.

A happy home is one in which each spouse grants the possiblility that the other may be right, though neither believes it.

Sacrificers are not the ones to pity. The ones to pity are those they sacrifice.

Well done is better than well said.

A cup is useful only when it is empty; and a mind that is filled with beliefs, with dogmas, with assertions, with quotations, is really an uncreative mind.

Conflictisn't negative, it just is.