To start blindly with a statement is a sign of arrogance and narrow-mindedness,and will lead to conflict. To start blindly with a question is a sign ofuncertainty and honesty, and will lead to wisdom.

When makinga decision of minor importance, I have always found it advantageous toconsider all the pros and cons. In vital matters, however, such as the choiceof a mate or a profession, the decision should come from the unconscious,from somewhere within ou

Conflictinvolves incompatible behaviors rather than competitive goals.

Stability is not immobility

Anyone whoconducts an argument by appealing to authority is not using his intelligence,just his memory.

Friendships begin with liking or gratitude-roots that can be pulled up.

God made time, but man made haste.

Show me a man who cannot bother to do little things andI'll show you a man who cannot be trusted to do big things.

Agrievance is most poignant when almost redressed.

If I giveyou an egg, and you give me an egg, we will each have one egg.

Power consists in one's capacity to link his will with thepurpose of others, to lead by reason and a gift of cooperation.

When weblame, we give away our power.