Our power is in our ability to decide.

Creation is only the projection into form of that which already exists.

Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

Let us nevernegotiate out of fear. But let us never fear to negotiate.

If speakingis silver, then listening is gold.

Silenceis the ultimate weapon of power.

Hatred does not not cease by hatred; but only by rule; this is the eternal rule.

Learning must be had, but in the second place, as subsequent only to greater qualities.

Wherethe tongue slips, it speaks the truth.

Trust only movement. Life happens at the level of events, notof words. Trust movement.

Listeningwell is as powerful a means of communication and influence as to talk well.

Whenconflict becomes a win-lose contest in our minds, we immediately try to win.