Every new adjustment is a crisis in self-esteem.

Frustration is commonly the difference between what you would like to be and what you are willing to become what you would like to be.

Our distrust is very expensive.

All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

I'm nota combative person. My long experience has taught me to resolve conflict byraising the issues before I or others burn their boats.

Reason is my philosophy, is only a harmony among irrational impulses.

Resolvingconflict is rarely about who is right. It is about acknowledgment andappreciation of differences.
One ofthe best ways to persuade others is with your ears by listening to them.

Inbusiness, you don't get what you deserve, you get what you negotiate.

Angels fly, because they take themselves lightly.

Undernormal conditions, most people tend to see what they want to see, hear what theywant to hear, and do what they want to do; in conflicts, their positionsbecome even more rigid and fixed.

You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you willlive in torment if you don't trust enough.

Aclosed mind is like a closed book; just a block of wood.