The amount of effort put into a campaign by a worker expands in proportion to the personal benefits that he will derive from his party's victory.

Flatteryis the infantry of negotiation.

Ultimately, the only power to which man should aspire isthat which he exercises over himself.

When youhave to make a choice and you don't make it, that itself is a choice.

Whenyou plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don't blame the lettuce. Youlook for reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water,or less sun. You never blame the lettuce. Yet if we have problems with ourfriends or our family,

We arethe prisoners of ideas.

Cooperativeconflict builds people up, strengthens their relationships, and gets thingsdone.

Conflictisn't negative, it just is.

All is riddle, and the key to a riddle is another riddle.

No onecan persuade another to change. Each of us guards a gate of change that canonly be opened from the inside. We cannot open the gate of another, either byargument or emotional appeal.

The Older I get, the more I judge people by their character and not by their ideas.

Do not wrong or hate your neighbor for it is not hethat you wrong but yourself.