If you truly want honesty, don't ask questions you don't really want the answer to.

Toeffectively communicate, we must realize that we are all different in the waywe perceive the world and use this understanding as a guide to ourcommunication with others.

All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

There is no knowledge that is not power.

Do not despair, not even over the fact that you don't despair.

A shipin harbor is safe, but that is not what ships arebuilt for.

Anyonewho conducts an argument by appealing to authority is not using his intelligence,just his memory.

Thepeak efficiency of knowledge and strategy is to make conflict unnecessary.

Nothing has happend to you unless you make much of it.

Thedays are too short even for love; how can there be enough time for quarreling?

Nevercut what you can untie.

Never answer a letter while you are angry.