You andyour spouse should consider the arguments you have, not as calamities in thehistory of your child’sdevelopment, but as opportunities for learning. Take the opportunity to teachyour children the art ofand value in negotiation, and to demonstrate you

No onecan persuade another to change. Each of us guards a gate of change that canonly be opened from the inside. We cannot open the gate of another, either byargument or emotional appeal.

Thetime to repair the roof is when the sun is shining.

The numberone goal in resolving a conflict is to make sure both sides maintain theirself-esteem.

Bargainlike a gypsy, but pay like a gentleman.

We gain freedom when we have paid full price for our right to live.

The comforter's head never aches.

It seemedrather incongruous that in a society of super sophisticated communication, weoften suffer from a shortage of listeners.

I’mwillin’ for any solution — religious, political. I’m not going to keepofferin’ to negotiate so much because they turn us down each time. Itindicates a weakness on our part.

Never answer a letter while you are angry.

Nature gave women too much power; the law gives them too little.

We mustbe part of the general staff at the inception, rather than the ambulancedrivers at the bitter end.