When makinga decision of minor importance, I have always found it advantageous toconsider all the pros and cons. In vital matters, however, such as the choiceof a mate or a profession, the decision should come from the unconscious,from somewhere within ou

No one was ever really taught by another; each of us has to teach himself.

Peoplewho are too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successfuland feel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation,or between extrinsic and intrinsic motivation…

Neverforget the power of silence, that massively disconcerting pause which goes onand on and may at last induce an opponent to babble and backtrack nervously.

There is much more learning than knowing in the world.

Extremiststhink communication means agreeing with them.

Listeningwell is as powerful a means of communication and influence as to talk well.

The work of an unknown good man is like a vein of water flow hidden underground, secretly making the ground greener.

It doesnot do to leave a Dragon out of your calculations, if you live near him.

Maturityis the capacity to endure uncertainty.

Man is born free, and everywhere is is in chains

It's notthe will to win, but the will to prepare to win that makes the difference.