Whenconflict becomes a win-lose contest in our minds, we immediately try to win.

Allthings are ready, if our minds be so.

A happy home is one in which each spouse grants the possiblility that the other may be right, though neither believes it.

Out ofthe fullness of the heart the mouth speaks.

Thecorrect strategy for Americans negotiating with Japanese or other foreignclients is a Japanese strategy:ask questions. When you think you understand, ask more questions. Carefullyfeel for pressure points.If an impasse is reached, don't pressure. Sugges

A Habit is a shirt made of iron.

I hope our wisdom will grow with our power, and teach us,that the less we use our power the greater it will be.

God made time, but man made haste.

All the power that we exercise over others depends on thepower we exercise over ourselves.

No man everdid a designed injury to another, but at the same time he did a greater tohimself .

Well-managed,cooperative conflict contributes to the productivity and innovativeness oforganizations and the competence and well-being of people.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony