A smallbenefit obtained is better than a great one in expectation.

Kindwords can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.

Conflictisn't negative, it just is.

One must be fond of people and trust them if one is not tomake a mess of life.

If you arepatient in a moment of anger, you will escape a hundred days of sorrow.

As longas you keep a person down, some part of you has to be down there to hold himdown, so it means you cannot soar as you otherwise might.

Younever really understand a person until you consider things from his point ofview.

Wisdom loves the children of men, but she prefers those who come through foolishness to wisdom

Undernormal conditions, most people tend to see what they want to see, hear what theywant to hear, and do what they want to do; in conflicts, their positionsbecome even more rigid and fixed.

Consistencyrequires you to be as ignorant today as you were a year ago.

I liketo listen. I have learned a great deal from listening carefully. Most peoplenever listen.

Have adialogue between the two opposing parts and you will find that they alwaysstart out fighting each other until we come to an appreciation of difference... a oneness and integration of the two opposingforces. Then the civil war is finished, and your e