Whenyou plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don't blame the lettuce. Youlook for reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water,or less sun. You never blame the lettuce. Yet if we have problems with ourfriends or our family,
Artists can color the sky red because they know its blue.those of us who are not artists must color things the way they really are or people might think we are stupid.