The means by which we live have outdistanced the ends forwhich we live. Our scientific power has outrun our spiritual power. We haveguided missiles and misguided men.

Well-managed,cooperative conflict contributes to the productivity and innovativeness oforganizations and the competence and well-being of people.

Bythree methods we may learn wisdom: first, by reflection, which is noblest;second, imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is thebitterest.

Beautifullight is born of darkness, so the faith that springs from conflict is oftenthe strongest and the best.

You may give gifts without caring, but you can't care without giving

Alwaysforgive your enemies. Nothing annoys them so much.

Whenconflict becomes a win-lose contest in our minds, we immediately try to win.

You canoutdistance that which is running after you, but not what is running insideyou.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony

Success is often the result of taking a mis-step in the right direction.

When youcannot make up your mind which of two evenly balanced courses of action youshould take choose the bolder.

You'vegot to know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em know, when to walk away, know when to run.