Wordsare, of course, the most powerful drug used by mankind.

I know youbelieve you understand what you think I said, but I'm not sure you realizethat what you heard isn't what I meant.

People loan their trust, they don't give it.

Hold a true friend with both your hands.

Nothing destroys authority more than the unequal and untimelyinterchange of power stretched too far and relaxed too much.

None but the productive can be strong; and none but the strong can be free.

Out of the fullness of the heart the mouth speaks.

Conflictinvolves incompatible behaviors rather than competitive goals.

Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

I think I could sum up my position on this with therecitation of a brief Russian proverb ‘Doveryai no Proveryai.’ Itmeans trust but verify.

Cooperativeconflict builds people up, strengthens their relationships, and gets thingsdone.

Don'tthrow out the baby with the bath water.