Change meansmovement. Movement means friction. Only in the frictionless vacuum of anonexistent abstract world can movement or change occur without that abrasivefriction of conflict.

Ultimately, the only power to which man should aspire isthat which he exercises over himself.

Itis all right if you talk to yourself. It is all right if you answer yourself.But when you start disagreeing with the answers, you've got a problem.

Peoplewho are too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successfuland feel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation,or between extrinsic and intrinsic motivation…

Do not wrong or hate your neighbor for it is not hethat you wrong but yourself.

Slander cannot destroy an honest man: when the flood recedes the rock is there.

Usenon-verbal communication to SOFTEN the hard-line position of others: S =Smile, O = Open, Posture, F = Forward Lean, T = Touch, E = Eye Contact, N =Nod.

A manneed never revenge himself; the body of his enemy will be brought to his owndoor.

Let usnever negotiate out of fear. But let us never fear to negotiate.

Kind words do not cost much. Yet they accomplish much.

An expert is a man, who dosent has all the answers, but he is sure that if that he is given enough money he can find them.

Thetorment of human frustration, whatever its immediate cause,is the knowledge that the self is in prison, its vital force and ‘mangledmind’ leaking away in lonely, wasteful self-conflict.