Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

Power can be taken, but not given. The process of thetaking is empowerment in itself.

Washing one's hands of the conflict between the powerfuland the powerless means to side with the powerful, not to be neutral.

There are always two forces warring against each other within us.

Thesubconscious part in us is called the subjective mind, because it does notdecide and command. It is subject rather than a ruler. Its nature is to dowhat it is told, or what really in your heart of hearts you desire.

No matterhow thin you make a pancake, it always has two sides.

It is less dangerous to treat most men badly than to treat them too well.

Keepthings informal. Talking is the natural way to do business. Writing is greatfor keeping records and putting down details, but talk generates ideas. Greatthings come from our luncheon meetings which consist of a sandwich, a cup ofsoup, and a good idea

No onecan persuade another to change. Each of us guards a gate of change that canonly be opened from the inside. We cannot open the gate of another, either byargument or emotional appeal.

In loving, you lean on some one to hold him up.

It is better to suffer wrong than to do it, and happier tobe sometimes cheated than not to trust.

We make our friends, we make our enemies, but God makes our next-door neighbours.