If youare standing upright, don't worry if your shadow is crooked.

Treatpeople as if they were, what they ought to be andyou help them become what they are capable of being.

Listeningwell is as powerful a means of communication and influence as to talk well.

Themost dramatic conflicts are perhaps, those that take place not between menbut between a man and himselfwhere the arena of conflict is a solitary mind.

Treat peopleas if they were what they ought to be and you help them to become what theyare capable of being.

Saying nothing... sometimes says the most.

He who asks questions cannot avoid the answers.

The highest proof of virtue is to possess boundless powerwithout abusing it.

Whenevertwo good people argue over principles, they are both right.

Thenumber one goal in resolving a conflict is to make sure both sides maintaintheir self-esteem.

Theultimate test of a relationship is to disagree but hold hands.

Whenyou plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don't blame the lettuce. Youlook for reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water,or less sun. You never blame the lettuce. Yet if we have problems with ourfriends or our family,