Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret.

Talk back to your internal critic. Train yourself to recognize and write downcritical thoughts as they go through your mind. Learn why these thoughts areuntrue and practice talking and writing back to them.

Far better to think historically, to remember the lessonsof the past. Thus, far better to conceive of power as consisting in part ofthe knowledge of when not to use all the power you have. Far better to be onewho knows that if you reserve the power not to

Undernormal conditions, most people tend to see what they want to see, hear what theywant to hear, and do what they want to do; in conflicts, their positionsbecome even more rigid and fixed.

A book, like a landscape, is a state of consciouness varying with readers.

.Oneshould count each day a separate life.

Icannot divine how it happens that the man who knows the least is the mostargumentative.

Windowsof opportunity exist for only a brief moment in time, you have to have visionin order to spot them, and take advantage of them.

One ofthe best ways to persuade others is with your ears by listening to them.

There is much more learning than knowing in the world.

Ideal society is a drama enacted exclusively in the imagination

You andyour spouse should consider the arguments you have, not as calamities in thehistory of your child’sdevelopment, but as opportunities for learning. Take the opportunity to teachyour children the art ofand value in negotiation, and to demonstrate you