Aquarrel is like buttermilk: once it's out of the churn, the more you shakeit, the more sour it grows.

I have never been able to conceive how any rational beingcould propose happiness to himself from the exercise of power over others.

Cooperativeconflict builds people up, strengthens their relationships, and gets thingsdone.

All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

Sometimesyou have to be silent to be heard.

We think too small. Like the frog at the bottom of the well. He thinks the sky is only as big as the top of the well. If he surfaced, he would have an entirely different view.

Do not tell me the problem is a difficult one. If it were not difficult, it would not be a problem

The property of power is to protect.

We make our friends, we make our enemies, but God makes our next-door neighbours.

In loving, you lean on some one to hold him up.

Every age thinks its battle the most important of all.

Long-rangeplanning works best in the short term.