It's notthe will to win, but the will to prepare to win that makes the difference.

Everyoneis wise until he speaks.

People whoare too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successful andfeel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation, or between extrinsicand intrinsic motivation...

If you truly want honesty, don't ask questions you don't really want the answer to.

Drowning problems in an ocean of information is not the same as solving them.

The mostintense conflicts, if overcome, leave behind a sense of security and calmthat is not easily disturbed. It is just these intense conflicts and theirconflagration which are needed to produce valuable and lasting results.

It's good to shut up sometimes.

It is a lesson which all history teaches wise men, to puttrust in ideas, and not in circumstances.

Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

The mostdramatic conflicts are perhaps, those that take place not between men butbetween a man and himself where the arena of conflict is a solitary mind.

Ignorancedoesn't kill you, but it does make you sweat a lot.

To effectivelycommunicate, we must realize that we are all different in the way we perceivethe world and use this understanding as a guide to our communication withothers.