All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

If Igive you an idea, and you give me an idea, we will each have two ideas.

A perfect method for adding drama to life is to wait untilthe deadline looms large.

A cup is useful only when it is empty; and a mind that is filled with beliefs, with dogmas, with assertions, with quotations, is really an uncreative mind.

Thenumber one goal in resolving a conflict is to make sure both sides maintaintheir self-esteem.

Dealwith the faults of others as gently as with your own.

Humoris the affectionate communication of insight.

A successful man is one who can lay a firm foundation with the brick that others throw at him.

Thespirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.

Aquarrel is like buttermilk: once it's out of the churn, the more you shakeit, the more sour it grows.

The condition upon which God hath given liberty to man is eternal vigilance.

Whenevertwo people meet there are really six people present. There is each man as he seeshimself, each man as the other sees him, and each man as he really is.