Let uswork without disputing. It is the only way to render life tolerable.

Girls .. . were allowed to play in the house . . . and boys were sent outdoors. . .Boys ran around in the yard with toy guns going kksshh-kksshh,fighting wars for made-up reasons and arguing about whowas dead, while girls stayed inside and played with dol

Trust exists; only lies are invented.

Embracingconflict can become a joy when we know that irritation and frustration canlead to growth and fascination.

Relationships of trust depend on our willingness to looknot only to our own interests, but also the interests of others.

It is much easier to be a hero than a gentleman.

Aquarrel is like buttermilk: once it's out of the churn, the more you shakeit, the more sour it grows.

Long-rangeplanning works best in the short term.

Allthings at first appear difficult.

A person who talks about his Inferiors han't any.

Don'tstand by the water and long for fish; go home and weave a net.

A good listeneris not only popular everywhere, but after a while he gets to know something.