Power is not a means, it is an end. One does not establisha dictatorship in order to safeguard a revolution; one makes the revolutionin order to establish the dictatorship.

Nothingso completely baffles one who is full of trick and duplicity himself, thanstraightforward and simple integrity in another.

Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

It seemed rather incongruous that in a society of super sophisticatedcommunication, we often suffer from a shortage of listeners.

There are questions of real power and then there arequestions of phony authority. You have to break through the phony authorityto begin to fight the real questions of power.

He who is unable to dance says the yard is stony.

It wasimpossible to get a conversation going, everybody was talking too much.

To know the pains of power, we must go to those who haveit; to know its pleasures, we must go to those who are seeking it.

The easiest,the most tempting, and the least creative response to conflict within anorganization is to pretend it does not exist.

Whenconflict becomes a win-lose contest in our minds, we immediately try to win.

Encouragement after censure is as the sun after a shower.

You gotto be very careful if you don't know where you're going, because you mightnot get there.