Supicion of one's own motives is especially necessary for the philanthropist and the executive.

Why don'tyou want to do what you know you should do? The reason you don't is thatyou're in conflict with yourself.

Usesoft words and hard arguments.

No matter how good the idea of the other fellow may be, there is always a better one !

Nothingso completely baffles one who is full of trick and duplicity himself, thanstraightforward and simple integrity in another.

They mayforget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel.

Without trust, words become the hollow sound of a woodengong. With trust, words become life itself.

Lower your voice and strengthen your argument.

The possession of power over others in inherently destructiveboth to the possessor of the power and to those over whom it is exercised.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony

Twobirds disputed about a kernel, when a third swooped down and carried it off.

Whenever I hear anyone arguing for slavery, I feel a strong impulse to see it tried onhim personally.