Power is not revealed by striking hard or often, but bystriking true.

You can't change people, but you can channel them your way.

It'snot hard to make decisions when you know what your values are.

Little things console us because little things afflict us.

Write injuries in dust, benefits in marble.

Effectivecommunication is 20 percent what you know and 80 percent how you feel aboutwhat you know.

Whenconflict becomes a win-lose contest in our minds, we immediately try to win.

The exercise of power is determined by thousands ofinteractions between the world of the powerful and that of the powerless, allthe more so because these worlds are never divided by a sharp line: everyonehas a small part of himself in both.

Be notdisturbed at being misunderstood; be disturbed at not understanding.

The property of power is to protect.

It isgreed to do all the talking but not to want to listen at all.

Thego-between wears out a thousand sandals.