Welearn little from victory, much from defeat.

A perfect method for adding drama to life is to wait untilthe deadline looms large.

The first duty of love is to listen.

Within-groupconflict is always personal and emotional even if it begins with impersonalissues.

When youhave to make a choice and you don't make it, that itself is a choice.

Surprise is the greatest gift which life can grant us.

The warexisting between the senses and reason.

I'm nota combative person. My long experience has taught me to resolve conflict byraising the issues before I or others burn their boats.

The purpose of getting power is to be able to give itaway.

Girls .. . were allowed to play in the house . . . and boys were sent outdoors. . .Boys ran around in the yard with toy guns going kksshh-kksshh,fighting wars for made-up reasons and arguing about whowas dead, while girls stayed inside and played with dol

If you arepatient in a moment of anger, you will escape a hundred days of sorrow.

He who asks questions cannot avoid the answers.