Peoplewho are too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successfuland feel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation,or between extrinsic and intrinsic motivation…

I like to listen. I have learned a great deal from listening carefully. Most peoplenever listen.

Never answer a letter while you are angry.

A man sits as many risks as he runs.

Life is like a mirror. smile at it, and it is charming; frown at it, and it becomes sinister.

No manever did a designed injury to another, but at the same time he did a greaterto himself .

Within-groupconflict is always personal and emotional even if it begins with impersonalissues.

You'rein a much better position to talk with people when they approach you thanwhen you approach them.

Of all human foibles love of living is the most powerful.

The deeper the waters are, the more still they run.

Prejudice is a disease characterised by hardening of categories.

There is much more learning than knowing in the world.