Whenconflict becomes a win-lose contest in our minds, we immediately try to win.

Theultimate test of a relationship is to disagree but hold hands.

It's not only later than you think- it's sooner than you suspect.

Deep-seatedpreferences cannot be argued about.

Thereis no advancement to him who stands trembling because he cannot see the endfrom the beginning.

Neveranswer a letter while you are angry.

No battle is more sorely lost that the one not fought

Luck iswhat happens when preparation meets opportunity.

I'm nota combative person. My long experience has taught me to resolve conflict byraising the issues before I or others burn their boats.

Anounce of mediation is worth a pound of arbitration and a ton of litigation!

All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

I have learned through bitter experience the one supremelesson to conserve my anger, and as heat conserved is transmitted intoenergy, even so our anger controlled can be transmitted into a power that canmove the world.