A manneed never revenge himself; the body of his enemy will be brought to his owndoor.

Peaceis not the absence of conflict but the presence of creative alternatives forresponding to conflict alternatives to passive or aggressive responses,alternatives to violence.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony

The talker will lead the dog to the meat market.

The man with the new idea is a crank until the idea succeeds.

Pleasure is the sincerest compliment.

The deeper the waters are, the more still they run.

We'reeyeball to eyeball and the other fellow just blinked.

It ishard to change our point of view in a conflict. Most often, it is because weare not nearly as interested in resolving the conflict and possibly creatinga new ‘pearl’ as we are in being right.

Fortunatelypsychoanalysis is not the only way to resolve inner conflicts. Life itselfstill remains a very effective therapist.

Remembernot only to say the right thing in the right place, but far more difficultstill, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment.

I liketo listen. I have learned a great deal from listening carefully. Most peoplenever listen.