Weagree completely on everything, including the fact we don't see eye to eye.

Be notdisturbed at being misunderstood; be disturbed at not understanding.

Bargainlike a gypsy, but pay like a gentleman.

Thehardest step is over the threshold.

It is throughcooperation, rather than conflict, that your greatest successes will bederived.

Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

It isdifficult to negotiate where neither will trust.

All thingsat first appear difficult.

Conflictis inevitable, but combat is optional.

In aconflict, being willing to change allows you to move from a point of view toa viewing point a higher, moreexpansive place, from which you can see both sides.

Power is a little like alcohol: the faster it is consumed, the more quickly it affects the brain.

The great essentials of happiness are: something to do,something to love and something to hope for.