Assumptionof cooperative goals leads to viewing the conflict as a common problem to besolved for mutual benefit.

No matterhow thin you make a pancake, it always has two sides.

Kind wordscan be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.

Speechis human, silence is divine, yet also brutish and dead; therefore we mustlearn both arts.

A wise man will make more opportunities than he finds.

A quiettongue shows a wise head.

In art, as in love, instinct is enogh.

The directuse of force is such a poor solution to any problem, it is generally employedonly by small children and large nations.

All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

Listeningwell is as powerful a means of communication and influence as to talk well.

He who asks questions cannot avoid the answers.

A man has no ears for that to which experience has given no access.