It is not the whip that makes man, but the lure of things that are worthy to be loved.

Resolvingconflict is rarely about who is right. It is about acknowledgment andappreciation of differences.

It is better to trust and sometimes be disappointed thanto be forever mistrusting and be right occasionally.

Marriagemeans expectations and expectations mean conflict.

Every generation revolts against its fathers and makes friends with its grandfathers.

Nobody'sa natural. You work hard to get good and then work to get better. It's hardto stay on top.

We donot have to agree; we do need to understand.

Far better to think historically, to remember the lessonsof the past. Thus, far better to conceive of power as consisting in part ofthe knowledge of when not to use all the power you have. Far better to be onewho knows that if you reserve the power not to

A manneed never revenge himself; the body of his enemy will be brought to his owndoor.

To sit alone in the lamp light with a book spread out before you-such is a pleasure beyond compare.

We think too small. Like the frog at the bottom of the well. He thinks the sky is only as big as the top of the well. If he surfaced, he would have an entirely different view.

Better hazard than always be in fear.