Tofight and conquer in all your battles is not supreme excellence; supremeexcellence consists in breaking the enemy's resistance without fighting.

There is all the difference in the world between having something to say and havingto say something.

Don'tjudge a book by its cover.

Some people suffer in silence louder than others

Peoplewho are too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successfuland feel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation,or between extrinsic and intrinsic motivation…

Two man looks out through the same bars: the one sees the mud, the one the stars.

Insteadof suppressing conflicts, specific channels could be created to make thisconflict explicit, and specific methods could be set up by which the conflictis resolved.

Write injuries in dust, benefits in marble.

Embracingconflict can become a joy when we know that irritation and frustration canlead to growth and fascination.

Sacrificers are not the ones to pity. The ones to pity are those they sacrifice.

The good things of life are not to be had singly, but come to us with a mixture; like a school boy's holiday, with a task affixed to the tail of it.

We think too small. Like the frog at the bottom of the well. He thinks the sky is only as big as the top of the well. If he surfaced, he would have an entirely different view.