Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

You only have power over people so long as you don't takeeverything away from them. But when you've robbed a man of everything he's nolonger in your power he's free again.

Thefire you kindle for your enemy often burns yourself more than him.

Themore adaptability exists for a given kind of decision, the less risky it isto make plans for the future, and therefore the more likely it is that morepeople will make more plans in such areas.

Inspiration comes of working every day.

Thecorrect strategy for Americans negotiating with Japanese or other foreignclients is a Japanese strategy:ask questions. When you think you understand, ask more questions. Carefullyfeel for pressure points.If an impasse is reached, don't pressure. Sugges

Suffering is one very long moment. We cannot divide it by seasons. WE can only record its moods and chronicle their return.

A slyrabbit will have three openings to its den.

Difficultiesare meant to rouse, not discourage. The human spirit is to grow strong byconflict.

It's more shameful to mistrust one's friends than to be deceived by them.

The wise man reads both books and life itself.

The basic building block of good communications is the feeling that every humanbeing is unique and of value.