It ishard to change our point of view in a conflict. Most often, it is because weare not nearly as interested in resolving the conflict and possibly creatinga new ‘pearl’ as we are in being right.

Tobelieve in something, and not to live it, is dishonest.

Knowingthat everything's futile but still fighting, still raging against the dying ofthe light that's what motivates me all the time ... If you hold that sense offutility in your head for too long, it can begin to eat into you. You canstill be aware of it

Mandoes not live by words alone, despite the fact that sometimes he has to eatthem.

The thoughts that come often unsought, and as it were, drop into the mind, are commonly the most valuable of any we have.

The man with the new idea is a crank until the idea succeeds.

Thedirect use of force is such a poor solution to any problem,it is generally employed only by small children and large nations.

A man, when he burns, leaves only a handful of ashes. woman can hold him. the wind must blow him away.

You can't unscramble an egg.

Have adialogue between the two opposing parts and you will find that they alwaysstart out fighting each other until we come to an appreciation of difference... a oneness and integration of the two opposingforces. Then the civil war is finished, and your e

If you can't love visible people, then how can u love invisible God. - Mother teresa

Listeningwell is as powerful a means of communication and influence as to talk well.