Conflictcan be seen as a gift of energy, in which neither sideloses and a new dance is created.

The average man’s life consists of: Twenty years of having his mother ask him where he is going, Forty years of having his wife ask the same question; and at the end, the mourners wondering too.

We areall inclined to judge ourselves by our ideals; others, by their acts.

In themiddle of every difficulty lies opportunity.

Goodcommunication is as stimulating as black coffee, and just as hard to sleepafter.

It is less dangerous to treat most men badly than to treat them too well.

Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

Conflictis neither good nor bad. Properly managed, it is absolutely vital.

Nevermiss a good chance to shut up.

Be slow of tounge and quick of eye.

All thingsat first appear difficult.

Thenumber one goal in resolving a conflict is to make sure both sides maintaintheir self-esteem.