Thesearch for someone to blame is always successful.

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

People whoare too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successful andfeel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation, or between extrinsicand intrinsic motivation...

Life cannot go on without much forgetting.

Theproblem with communication is the illusion that is has occurred.

Am Inot destroying my enemies when I make friends of them?

Don'tjudge a book by its cover.

The highest proof of virtue is to possess boundless powerwithout abusing it.

Talk back to your internal critic. Train yourself to recognize and write downcritical thoughts as they go through your mind. Learn why these thoughts areuntrue and practice talking and writing back to them.

Theeasiest, the most tempting, and the least creative response to conflictwithin an organization is to pretend it does notexist.

Grantgraciously what you cannot refuse safely and conciliate those you cannotconquer.

The possession of power over others in inherently destructiveboth to the possessor of the power and to those over whom it is exercised.