Peoplewho are too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successfuland feel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation,or between extrinsic and intrinsic motivation…

In anyfree society, the conflict between social conformity and individual libertyis permanent, unresolvable, and necessary.

So longas a man is angry he cannot be in the right.

Conflictcan be seen as a gift of energy, in which neither sideloses and a new dance is created.

Don'tcut off your nose to spite your face.

Am Inot destroying my enemies when I make friends of them?

Twobirds disputed about a kernel, when a third swooped down and carried it off.

Parents these days scarcely bring up children; they finance them.

Byblending the breath of the sun and the shade, true harmony comes into theworld.

If I giveyou an egg, and you give me an egg, we will each have one egg.

Marriagemeans expectations and expectations mean conflict.

Prayrer changes things by changing people.