Have adialogue between the two opposing parts and you will find that they alwaysstart out fighting each other until we come to an appreciation of difference... a oneness and integration of the two opposingforces. Then the civil war is finished, and your e

The work of an unknown good man is like a vein of water flow hidden underground, secretly making the ground greener.

No matterhow thin you make a pancake, it always has two sides.

Slander cannot destroy an honest man: when the flood recedes the rock is there.

Themost important single ingredient in the formula of success is knowing how toget along with people.

Insteadof suppressing conflicts, specific channels could be created to make thisconflict explicit, and specific methods could be set up by which the conflictis resolved.

Wisdomis what you get for a lifetime of listening when you'd have preferred totalk.

You can't unscramble an egg.

Outside noisy, inside empty.

Thecorrect strategy for Americans negotiating with Japanese or other foreignclients is a Japanese strategy:ask questions. When you think you understand, ask more questions. Carefullyfeel for pressure points.If an impasse is reached, don't pressure. Sugges

I liketo listen. I have learned a great deal from listening carefully. Most peoplenever listen.

Firstkeep the peace within yourself, then you can alsobring peace to others.