All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

Power is not only what you have but what the enemy thinksyou have.

It is atrick among the dishonest to offer sacrifices that are not needed,or not possible, to avoid making those that are required.

Be still when you have nothing to say; when genuine passion moves you, say whatyou've got to say, and say it hot.

To like and dislike the same thing, that is, indeed, friendship.

Embracingconflict can become a joy when we know that irritation and frustration canlead to growth and fascination.

Effectivecommunication is 20 percent what you know and 80 percent how you feel aboutwhat you know.

Conscience is the frame of character, love is the covering for it.

Soremarkably perverse is the nature of man that he despises those that court himand admires whoever will not bend before him.

Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret.

It is easier to be brave from a safe distance.

A barking dog is often more useful than a sleeping lion.