Thefire you kindle for your enemy often burns yourself more than him.

The numberone goal in resolving a conflict is to make sure both sides maintain theirself-esteem.

The Truly free man is one who know how to decline an invitation without giving an excuse.

By tryingoften, the monkey learns to jump from the tree.

All the power that we exercise over others depends on thepower we exercise over ourselves.

Listening,not imitation, may be the sincerest form of flattery.

We cannot all be great but we can always attach ourselves to something that is great.

I hold it to be a proof of great prudence for men toabstain from threats and insulting words toward an enemy, for neither ...diminishes the strength of the enemy; but the one makes him more cautious,and the other increases his hatred of you and makes him

What is required is sight and insight, then you might add one more excite.

When angry, count to ten before you speak; if very angry ahundred.

Talkingcomes by nature, silence by wisdom.

He who asks a question is a fool for five minutes; he who does not ask a questionremains a fool forever.